Cardaddy - Surgical date... FINALLY!!!

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Whasup y'all!

I know I brought this up a few weeks ago, hoping it wouldn't take so freaking long, but it's gotten REAL now.

Took 6+ weeks to get in to see the surgeon I picked at Emory. My Pain Management doctor gave me 3 names, told me to research them, and pick the one I wanted. All the while he was adamant that he didn't want me to have surgery. With people getting more "fusion's" these days than ever, he was totally against that happening. So much so in fact that he kept telling me this last "spell" would get better, "just hold on and you'll work through it". Don't get me wrong, I am TOTALLY in agreement with my regular guy, and the THOUGHT of the typical barbaric screws and rods involved with a "fusion" scared the living snot outta' me!!!!! Not to mention the benefits/results are marginal at best.

So I look up the guys on the list, and ended up picking my surgeon from the group at Emory Orthopaedics & Spine Center Hospital, a dedicated spine center that seems more like a boutique hotel than any hospital I've ever been in. Sofa beds in every room, flat screen TV's and 42 channels, even a room service menu (with what looks like some KILLER cheesecake). ;)

My appointment with him was Monday morning, EARLY at their offices, which are NOT where the hospital is, or the University hospital, or the University for that matter. And it was raining like Noah was going to pop out from around the corner. Here we are well south of Atlanta, and the offices are north of town. Monday morning rush hour, raining to beat the band, and Car-Momma had me up at 5:00.

This new thing in my back is a herniated disc, one I did in November. I've been telling everyone since then that something TOTALLY different was going on, (than my normal chronic back pain) but nobody seemed to want to hear me. Before then I could get around decent, albeit sometimes with a cane, but NEVER with a walker. Since November though..... it's been with a walker most days. That and since December my friggin leg has been exploding within seconds of standing up, (or trying to lift it for that matter).

I'd had new MRI's, new CT's, X-Rays, you name it. All saying basically the same thing. Some change since 2011, but nothing major. But that was before I could describe in detail every succinct line where the nerve pain runs, from back, arse, hip, thigh, shin, ankle, foot, to the end of my toes. Walk into the new Dr's office, tell him what has been going on, my history (of other back problems) hand his 'attending' my CD's and within minutes they come in the room, printouts in hand, and say "You have a herniated disc, right here". RIGHT HERE THEY SAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey, I'm glad that doctors want you to wait... I am, I get it. But meanwhile I'm taking levels of meds that NO-FRIGGIN-BAHHHH-DEEEE should have to take. Heck I'm concerned my LIVER is going to give out. :eek:

The surgeon is going to fix it, without a fusion. (We hope) But if he DOES do a fusion, he doesn't use rods and screws. He goes in from the front, puts a cage/ring/spacer thingy (loaded with grafted bone) in-between the vertebrae and uses the weight on the spine to form the fusion.

Good news (and bad). What he is shooting for is a discectomy. That's the good news. The bad news is where it is, he has to go in at the back and work within the area of the nerve root(s). And then what would normally take 30 minutes and a 1" incision , he's now talking 4 hours and a 6" incision! :eek: There is also substantial "calcification" (bone spurs) that are not a part of the disc herniation that they also need to work on. (The others saw this, just not the disc problem.)

The GREAT news is he's saying 70% pain relief in my right leg, right away... RIGHT AWAY! Holy....... No more walker! Have no idea what the recovery road is going to be like, but it can't be anywhere NEAR what the road to get here has been.

Left there Monday and had to go STRAIGHT to yet another Dr, (the family practice) to get a physical and get cleared for surgery. You know, just the regular money grabbing stuff, blood workup, pee in a cup, BP, EKG, you name it! :rolleyes:

Said all that to say this:
Zero Dark Thirty, Thursday the 24th I'll be there, with bells on. Maybe we can shoot a video of us dancing from the OR!?!? :laughing:

All things going well and we'll be home Friday afternoon/evening of the 25th.

Guys.... at this stage I don't know whether to laugh or cry. I'm just glad I don't have to keep taking so many pain meds for ANOTHER 6 months. And especially glad I don't have to take up skydiving, without a parachute. ;) I said a month ago that I didn't want to be alive for yet another birthday, not if it meant hurting like it's been the last 6 months. Well, as y'all know.... the birthday is here. But by the Grace of God surely we'll not have to wait much longer.

Thanks guys (you too Monica) ;)

Take care all,

Tony

So yeah.... two more Dr's appointments between now and then. One up to the hospital to "meet everyone" and do the Pre-Op stuff, another to my regular pain management guy for refills to get me through next month.
 
Wishing you the very best of success with this upcoming surgery.

Hell, just eating some bad meal, and having stomach issues, and diarrhea for 3 days makes me want to jump off a cliff.

Many of us cannot place ourselves in your shoes, and we sometimes cannot associate such a life filled with daily excruciating pain.

I hope you get well soon, and get great end results from all of this.
Mark
 
Wishing you the very best of success with this upcoming surgery.

Hell, just eating some bad meal, and having stomach issues, and diarrhea for 3 days makes me want to jump off a cliff.

Many of us cannot place ourselves in your shoes, and we sometimes cannot associate such a life filled with daily excruciating pain.

I hope you get well soon, and get great end results from all of this.
Mark

Oh Mark... don't let my ulcer know there is trouble coming. :eek:
I've been hospitalized several times with an upper GI problem, duodenal ulcer actually. That WILL bend you over, and it doesn't matter WHAT your back thinks about it.

I thought I knew what the worst of it was about actually. (The back pain that is.) But I hurt it last August trying to do something for a guy that acted like he actually gave a poot. On a black Porsche, left with nothing to work with. (Some may remember that thread... it's long since been locked away.) :rolleyes:

Hurt it again in November, but that time I knew INSTANTLY the disc was herniated. It's not as bad as it could be I guess, but it's bad enough where I can't stand up straight, FOR MONTHS. That and the ol' exploding leg thing. That one will get ya' every single time.

Had to go buy car tags today for my birthday. Just making it inside to the counter (there was nobody else to be able to go for me) and I was a huffing puffing mess. (Thank God for big sturdy back braces and monster ice packs!)



I hope everything goes smoothly and you get well soon!

Best of luck to you Tony.

Wish you the best Tony. God bless you and your family.

Thanks William, Paul, and Art. Surely it won't be as bad as the last few months have been.

It'll be over before you know it!

Yeah that's what they say when they put you under. :rolleyes:
Then you wake up in another country with an arm sticking out of your forehead. :)


But seriously guys... Times like this will tell you how fragile faith is, I can tell ya' that for SURE. Jobe? You always remember the stories you heard when you were a boy, or the sermons as you became older. Jobe was a ROCK! I challenge anyone in these days of having everything now, fast food, clicking a switch, taking a pill, instant gratification.... to scream in the face of your faith that you don't need it. :nomore:

I've said lately that the one word I've learned to not say, is NEVER.
Said I'd never take pain meds, lots of pain meds... and be OK with it, (as in it not make me sick) AND that it'd make my life better, (which it did.... for a while). Wrong! Because it has made me better.

I'd said I'd never let them put a 4+" scar on me where they operated on my neck, clamp down tight with a halo onto my skull. (Didn't matter that my hand was going dead.) Wrong again!


Said I'd N-E-V-E-R beg for lumbar surgery too! EVER!!!!!!!!!! Are you kidding me?!?!?! I've been begging for MONTHS! (Just took finding the right guy to listen.)

Comes a time......

To everything - turn, turn, turn
There is a season - turn, turn, turn
And a time to every purpose under heaven

A time to be born, a time to die
A time to plant, a time to reap
A time to kill, a time to heal
A time to laugh, a time to weep

To everything - turn, turn, turn
There is a season - turn, turn, turn
And a time to every purpose under heaven

A time to build up, a time to break down
A time to dance, a time to mourn
A time to cast away stones
A time to gather stones together

To everything - turn, turn, turn
There is a season - turn, turn, turn
And a time to every purpose under heaven
 
I hope the surgery is an overwhelming success!!
 
Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers...
Your surgical team sounds top-notch!!

"Now it cuts like a knife
But It feels so right
It cuts like a knife
But it feels so right"
~Bryan Adams

Bob
 
Congrats on getting you surgery! Wish you the best and will keep you and your family in my thoughts an prayers! You'll be better before you know it! Next year for your birthday you'll be able to dance you past pains away!
 
Tony,

Let go and let God and everything will be okay. Not to mention you have Carmomma to make sure everything's going to be okay.
 
Prayers and the best of luck to you Tony. You'll come through this fine but remember to follow the doc's instructions. Much too often "we think" we know what's best for us but occasionally the Doctor's get it right....

Good luck my friend! :props:
 
Good to hear you have found a great Dr and hospital to work with, better days are coming for you.
 
Finally!!!!!!!


So happy to hear this Tony! I hope this is the fix you need and can get you back on your feet again.
 
You will be in my thoughts and prayers!

Good luck from your oger twin!
 
Congrats on getting you surgery! Wish you the best and will keep you and your family in my thoughts an prayers! You'll be better before you know it! Next year for your birthday you'll be able to dance you past pains away!

I was thinking it'd be a good idea to dance *before* the surgery. :dunno: Then after, sort of a 50/50. :laughing:



Tony,

Let go and let God and everything will be okay. Not to mention you have Carmomma to make sure everything's going to be okay.

I hear ya'....
Not much to hold on to these days.... it wears one down after a while.
CarMomma is a true TROOPER, surely didn't sign up for this battle though. :rolleyes:

Told my son-in-law a while back, (when they were debating whether or not my daughter should go back to law school) that even though he does design microchips, God forbid... one day he end up having to depend on HER (in other words... she was GOING back to school!!!). Two AMAZINGLY STRONG women in my life those two! :D

Prayers and the best of luck to you Tony. You'll come through this fine but remember to follow the doc's instructions. Much too often "we think" we know what's best for us but occasionally the Doctor's get it right....

Good luck my friend!

Bobby, you were one of the first to welcome me (when I stopped several years of lurking). You're presence was missed around here my friend, and we're all glad you're back.:props:

I guess you're right... sometimes they *DO* get it right. Just took me FIVE MONTHS to find one that did this time around!

Don't get me wrong, my physiatrist is a great guy. But he DOES NOT want you to have surgery! (Not unless you've exhausted all other avenues.) That's why I've been with him these last 10 years, but NEXT TIME... we're doing it MY WAY (sooner than later).:rolleyes:
 
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