The whole operation was a success. I was able to get his truck for the day by telling him the truth - I needed it to go Christmas shopping and what I was buying wouldn't fit in my wife's Escape (the ABSOLUTE truth, without telling him ANYTHING :laughing: )
I dropped the truck off at 9 am and it was done before noon - even with the owner taking before, 1/2 finished and finished pictures and sending them to me.
Figuring there was no way he could fail to notice, I wrote a short (for me, one and a half page) "apology" note explaining everything, the how's and WHY'S and left it under his keys when I dropped the truck off (fortunately he was still at work, and I escaped cleanly).
I didn't figure on how dark it would be when he got home, so he actually DIDN'T notice the new lights, but he DID notice my note. Around 5:30 last night I get a phone call from my brother, thanking me for the lights ... and he actually sounded HAPPY about it. He said he had read my note, then went outside to check them out. He said he was amazed at how BRIGHT the new lights were compared to the old ones. *I* knew how bad they were, but not being a car person, HE didn't realize that he had been, in effect, driving blind in the dark. We talked briefly, and I told him Merry Christmas and we hung up.
I have to say I'm pretty pleased with myself, being able to give my brother a gift he needed AND appreciated, after so many years of getting him socks, or a Star Wars / Star Trek 'gag' gift for Christmas.