Sorry for the late reply... been kind of busy....
I don't like dry sanding, I don't like to wear a dust mask or respirator and I certainly don't want to breathe in whatever vile chemicals are used in car paint. That's just me though as I have friends in the industry that prefer to dry sand but they also do wear protective air filtering masks.
I do like dampsanding as it keeps the dust embodied in water instead of the air. Your discs won't tend to clog as fast either since the water will provide a place for the paint to reside instead of impacting into the face of your sanding disc.
As far as reducing pigtails I think Ralph aka magnus makes a very good point about working clean.
Fact is you're going to have abrasive particles wear off the disc
Fact is you're going to have paint particles abraded off the paint
These are two uncontrollable factors and the only way to avoid them is to work clean. What I do is wipe my panels after sanding thoroughly and rinse the face of my discs off with my clean water supply, (spray bottle of water).
I don't try to adjust my pressure to avoid pigtails, I adjust my pressure to sand efficiently, that is the goal. I don't adjust my speed to avoid pigtails I set the speed at what's needed to maintain pad rotation.
Besides the above, the most important factor you CAN control is to have a clean shop and a surgically clean car before sanding.
Might be a few more tips in this video from last night where all the sanding we did was dampsanding with 3" and 6" Trizact discs.
I did not see any signs of pigtails from our sanding.
Before we started I did see pigtails from the when the body shop machine sanded dry.
1965 Mustang GT Fastback - Wetsanding - Live Broadcast
[video=youtube_share;izDqUHdoCQg&hd=1"]Part 1 - How to Wetsand, Cut and Buff a 1965...[/video]
[video=youtube_share;Z-BptVd-_R8&hd=1"]Part 2 - How to Wetsand, Cut and Buff a 1965...[/video]
Hope that helps...