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that my neighbor died. I used to talk to him all the time because he would come out to get his mail at the same time that I would be outside waiting for my son's school bus to arrive and so we would talk everyday.The mailman we had retired and the new mailman who took over the route comes much later in the day after my son's bus had already come and gone and so I never got to see him anymore and now yesterday I found out that his house was up for sale and that he had passed away.

I'm sure by now some of you have already closed this thread and moved on and those of you that are still hanging with me here waiting for this thread to have some sort of point let me tell you now why I decided to post this. Afterall people die everyday, no? What makes my neighbor so special? Well, let me tell you.

His name was Thomas Pollicino. He was from Brooklyn, New York. He was 87 years old when he died. To anybody who would see him he would look just like a typical person like anybody else, but he was not typical. To me he was a hero. He fought in France during World War II in one of those battles where everybody in his platoon died except for himself and two other soldiers. He was awarded 3 purple hearts for wounds he received in battle and a silver star which is awarded for showing extraordinary heroism in the face of the enemy.

When he died there was no sounding of trumpets. There was no headline in the newspaper announcing that the world had just lost a great man. None of us neighbors got together to mourn him and talk about his life. There was nothing. Mr. Pollicino died alone in his home and I didn't even know it until I saw his house for sale.

I started this thread to let people know that there was a man, a great man, named Thomas Pollicino. He was a hero. His light just left the world and I will miss him dearly. I started this thread to honor him and to let you all know a little bit about the man. May he rest in peace.
 
Thanks for posting this. Remarkable people die all the time and we never know. It was nice that you had a chance to get to know him. In this age we have neighbors that we hardly know. A lady moved in next door to me a couple of months ago and I've never even seen her!
 
Thank you for sharing this with us. There are unsung heros among us everyday and yet we never see them. They're out there and sometimes if you take some time out of your everyday busy life and actually get to know someone their life story may amaze you. I love and admire older people because of what have seen and done in their lifetime. It warms my heart to know that you had a chance to get to know your neighbor and see him for more than just the old man down the street.

I am sorry for the loss of Thomas Pollicono, he was a true American Hero.

Sometimes we have to notice the unnoticed to reveal something spectacular.
 
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My he rest in peace and may God know his name. We will pick up where he left off
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Thank you Thomas Pollicino and Thanks to Jen becuase of her Thomas was not forgotten
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Thank You Jen for posting this...Friends of mine that I lost contact with that were with me in Nam ..and one saved my life.. have passed on with out me knowing...all heroes to me...

God bless Thomas Pollicino..another Unsung Heroe....may his rewards of life be given on his journey to the next plane of spiritual existence...

A heroe will always be a heroe...That Honor you take to the Pearly Gates...and your rewards await you..God Bless

Al
 
That was very nice of you to do Florida Native. He must have touched your life in a good way. I hope he has gone to a better life.
 
AL417 said:
Thank you for sharing this with us. There are unsung heros among us everyday and yet we never see them. They're out there and sometimes if you take some time out of your everyday busy life and actually get to know someone their life story may amaze you. I love and admire older people because of what have seen and done in their lifetime. It warms my heart to know that you had a chance to get to know your neighbor and see him for more than just the old man down the street.

I am sorry for the loss of Thomas Pollicono, he was a true American Hero.

Sometimes we have to notice the unnoticed to reveal something spectacular.

:iagree: He was a great man. When his wife was dying he came to me and asked me to help him. She had dementia and was in alot of pain and he just didn't know what to do. I went over to his house and tried to help her as best as I could. After we got her back to sleep, Mr. Pollicino showed me all his medals and the old photographs he had of his buddies. He told me about France and about the deaths of all his friends and he broke down crying as if it has just happened yesterday.

These men are the ones in the trenches, dying and being wounded for the rest of us. They see things and experience things that nobody should ever see and the rest of us could scarcely even imagine. And long after the wars are over, these men still carry it with them for the rest of their lives. They are called upon to sacrifice their all. These men are true heroes.

It was an honor to know him. He died all alone and when I found out I just had to do something about it. I felt compelled to tell whoever would listen about him and what kind of a man he was. Thank you all for listening. :grouphug:
 
I am sure he is looking at you, wherever he is, smiling at your kindness. If only everyone were as thoughtful as you, to remember a person who more than added a little something to this Earth, to make it a better place for us, fighting for the freedoms we take for granted here.

It is our youth who needs to know about these people.
Thank you Jen, and God bless. May Thomas rest in peace in a much better world.
 
You're thread is a nice tribute to a great man. May he rest in peace...
 
THANK YOU for posting that! God bless and keep them ALL! :grouphug:
 
Jen if we all had neighbors like you this world would be a far better place.
This was a great story. Thanks You for Sharing..

For my friend AL53: I didn't know that you served in Viet Nam.
Thanks for serving and Welcome Home My Friend..


For MR. Thomas Pollicino

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That was a nice write up Jenn. Tom was quite a guy. The invasion started in France @ Normandy. Wow, he may have been there. Tough, tough, tough duty. And to think that you had the honor to help him in his time of need. I admire you for doing that.
 
Jen, thanks for sharing. He is a hero! This has touched my heart. I'm thankful for him and the great men and women that has served and all that is serving now. I'm sure he will be missed.
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Bring Tissues as you read this!

This is a great tribute to him. Thanks for posting this. Here is a tid bit that was posted on the corvette forum that goes along this same thing. I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I did. I brought tears to my eyes and these guys are true AMERICAN HEROES!!!

A friend of mine posted this over on Corvette Forum. He had worked in the same squadron this kid worked in. This will bring tears like a baby! Why the hell wont the media post stuff like this? Why won't our country support people like this! Man, I wanna ring the necks of the people that don't understand what types of men/women that are over there giving their lives to help a country that needs our help and continue to fight and give their lives for what we have and have grown accustomed to.

Final Flight By Stuart Witt

Feb. 17, 2007, 0350 curbside at 24th and M, Washington DC. 16 degrees with a light breeze. Going home after my second week of freezing temps. Fly my aircraft, ride a horse, climb a mountain and get back to living. I'm tired of the cold.

0425 paying the taxi fare at Dulles in front of the United Airlines counter, still cold.

0450 engaging the self-serve ticker machine and it delivers my ticket, baggage tag and boarding pass. Hmmm, that Marine is all dressed up early…? Oh, maybe,,, Hmmm, "Good morning captain, you're looking sharp."

Pass security and to my gate for a quick decaf coffee and five hours sleep. A quick check of the flight status monitor and UA Flight 211 is on time. I'm up front, how bad can it be? Hmmm, that same Marine, he must be heading to Pendleton to see his lady at LAX for the long weekend all dressed up like that….? Or maybe not?

"Attention in the boarding area, we will begin boarding in 10 minutes, we have some additional duties to attend to this morning but we will have you out of here on time."

That captain now has five others with him. BINGO. I get it, he is not visiting his lady, he's an official escort. How I remember doing that once, CACO duty. I still remember the names of the victim and family, The Bruno family in Mojave …, all of them, wow, that was 24 years ago. I wonder if we will ever know who and why?

On board, 0600: "Good morning folks this is the captain. This morning we have been attending to some additional duties and I apologize for being 10 minutes late for pushback but believe me we will be early to LAX. This morning it is my sad pleasure to announce that 1st Lt. Jared Landaker, USMC, will be flying with us to his Big Bear home in Southern California.

''Jared lost his life over the skies of Iraq earlier this month and today we have the honor of returning him home along with his mother, father, brother and uncles.

''Please join me in making the journey comfortable for the Landaker family and their uniformed escort. Now sit back and enjoy our ride, we are not expecting any turbulence until we reach the Rocky Mountains and at that time we will do what we can to ensure a smooth ride. For those interested you can listen in to our progress on button 9."

Up button 9: "Good morning UA 211 you are cleared to taxi, takeoff and cleared to LAX as filed." From the time we started rolling we never stopped. 1st Lt. Landaker began receiving his due.

Four hours and 35 minutes later, over Big Bear Mountain, the AB320 makes a left roll and steep bank and then one to the right, Nice touch captain

"Five minutes out from landing, the captain: "Ladies and gents, after landing I'm leaving the fasten seatbelt sign on and I ask everyone in advance to yield to the Landaker family. Please remain seated until all members have departed the aircraft. Thank you for your patience, we are 20 minutes early."

On roll out, I notice red lights, emergency vehicles everywhere. We are being escorted directly to our gate, no waiting anywhere, not even a pause. Out the left window, a dozen Marines in full dress blues. Highway Patrol, police, fire crews all in full dress with lights on. A true class act by everyone, down to a person, from coast to coast. Way to go United Airlines for doing the little things RIGHT, because they are the big things; Air Traffic Control for getting the message, to all law enforcement for your display of brotherhood.

When the family departed the aircraft everyone sat silent, then I heard a lady say, "God Bless You and your Family, Thank You." Then another, then another, then a somber round of applause. The captain read a prepared note from Mrs. Landaker to the effect, "Thank you all for your patience and heartfelt concern for us and our son. We sincerely appreciate the sentiment. It is nice to have Jared home."

After departing the aircraft, I found myself, along with 30 others from our flight, looking for a window. Not a dry eye in the craft. All of us were bawling like babies. It was one of the most emotional moments of my life. We all stood silent and watched as Jared was taken by his honor guard to an awaiting hearse. Then the motorcade slowly made its way off the ramp.

I have finally seen the silent majority. It is deep within us all. Black, Brown, White, Yellow, Red, Purple, we are all children, parents, brothers, sisters, etc … we are an American family.

What you don't know is that on the flight I was tapped on the shoulder by Mrs. Landaker who introduced herself to me after I awoke. Her words were, "I understand you have sons in the service. Please tell them we appreciate their service. We are so proud of our kids who chose to serve at this time. We were so proud of Jared and today we find ourselves in a fog of disbelief. Jared was three days from returning home."

Early in our taxi out from the gate at Dulles, the gent next to me (a Fairfax City Council Member and acquaintance of the Thuot family) and I were talking to the flight attendant and mentioned that we had sons serving on active duty, "What do you say? How tragic, they must be devastated." He said many of the passengers had told him the same thing so somewhere in the flight he shared his tidbits with Mrs. Landaker. Our flight attendant had been struggling with what to say, to find the right words, so he told the Landaker family of passengers who were parents of service members who connected with their grief as parents. After I gathered myself, I stepped back to their row, two behind me and introduced myself to Mr. Landaker (a Veteran of South East Asia as a Tanker) and Jared's uncle and brother. What a somber moment. Their Marine captain escort was a first rate class act. He had been Jared's tactics instructor and volunteered for this assignment, as he said, "Sir, it is the least I could do, he was my friend and a great stick. He absolutely loved to fly, It's an honor to be here on his last flight."

1115: On my connecting flight, my mind raced. How lucky I was to have had an opportunity to fly my father to Spain and ride the carrier USS John F. Kennedy home in 1981. The same year Jared was born. How lucky I was to have my father on the crows landing when I made my final cat shot in an F-14. Jared's father never had that chance. Jared was at war, 10,000 miles away.

When Mr. Landaker and I were talking he shared with me, "When Jared was born he had no soft spot on his head and doctors feared he would be developmentally challenged. He became a physics major with honors, a high school and college athlete, and graduated with distinction from naval aviation flight school. He was short in stature, but a Marine all the way." Visit his life story on line at Big Bear Grizzly . Bring tissue.

February 7, 2007, Anbar Province, Iraq. 1st Lt Jared Landaker, United States Marine Corps, Hero, from Big Bear Calif., gave his life in service to his country. Fatally wounded when his CH-46 helicopter was shot down by enemy fire, Jared and his crew all perished. His life was the ultimate sacrifice of a grateful military family and nation.

His death occurred at the same time as Anna Nicole Smith, a drug using person with a 7th grade education of no pedigree who dominated our news for two weeks while Jared became a number on CNN. And most unfortunately, Jared's death underscores a fact that we are a military at war, not a nation at war. Until we become a nation committed to winning the fight, and elect leaders with the spine to ask Americans to sacrifice in order to win, we shall remain committed to being a nation with a military at war, and nothing more. (And possibly no funding if congress has their way!)

1st Lt. Landaker, a man I came to know in the skies over America on 17 February 2007, from me to you, aviator to aviator, I am unbelievably humbled. It was my high honor to share your last flight. God bless you.

Semper Fi.

Here is 1st Lt. Jared Landaker's obituary from the Big Bear Grizzly newspaper.

Gov. Schwarzenegger Issues Statement on Death of Big Bear City Marine

From la.indymedia.org:

Jared Landaker was piloting a CH-46 helicopter and had picked up a wounded Marine in Karbala, Iraq, and was taking him to a hospital when a support helicopter crew saw fire in the back. The helicopter spun around twice and crashed on its left side. Everyone inside burned to death, the pilot's mother said.
 
May Thomas Pollicino rest in peace. FloridaNative, you did the right thing of sharing what you know about this great man. I'm sure he's smiling upon you.
 
sparkie said:
Jen, thanks for sharing. He is a hero! This has touched my heart. I'm thankful for him and the great men and women that has served and all that is serving now. I'm sure he will be missed.
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Wow! What an amazing picture!! Thanks so much Sparkie for posting it up. Thank you to all of you for allowing me to share about Mr. Pollicino and to honor his memory and thank you to all who added comments of your own. God bless our brave men and women! :grouphug:
 
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