once you have a little bit of experience with wetsanding it will all make sence to you. the reason for 2000-2500 is that it is very fine and you really have to hit the same spot quite a bit to cause serious damage. I use a circular motion and I do not use a block I have cut the paper to fit a block but I hold it below my 2 middle fingers and use my pinky and index finger to stablize it. if that makes sence. Now when it comes to basic or even advanced detailing wetsanding is next to never neccesary. The only time I have found myself wetsanding is on new custom paintjobs to remove minor or major orange which was the case with the 57 Chevy in my sig. as for street cars I honestly can't remember ever really wetsanding anything. as for what to use when wetsanding if you have a favorite liquid car wash soap without wax just mix a small amout of that with water to create lubrication for the sandpaper to slide around freely on the paint. Please get some other opinions and as was posted earlier there are so many variables involved in how ,when , and why to wetsand. So it's hard to say without having the actual car sitting in front of me.. what I would recommend is to go to your local junk yard and grab an old hood and play around with sandpaper,compound,polishers,pads and get a feel for what does damage and what makes a mirror finish. Once you figure out what you can and can't do on the junk hood you will have a better undersatnding of customer or daily driver vehicles. Just don't ever get in a hurry with wetsanding and compounding because it can cost you more than it will make you if your not careful.