Anti-fog products do work, at least some of them, to some extent. To my knowledge, none of the consumer products are based on anything that came from the space program!
Believe it or not, anti-fog glass cleaners work in precisely the way which I have described as happening with many 'LSP strippers' - they intentionally leave (in this case, a very specific) residue behind. So, in actual fact, excessive wiping or buffing of this product class will be expected to diminish the performance. Unfortunately, there are some products on the market which are (I would presume) using silicone based technologies and these look fine, until you get intense lights shining on them, at all manner of angles - they start to look oily or smeary. This has led to some people thinking that these products need to be buffed within an inch of their lives when the reality is that this is only necessary when a product isn't really optimised for use on a windshield.