They have been good, thanks for asking...
I am enjoying the garage and the driveway finally got paved about 3 weeks ago so that's a real plus
Opie checked on me a while back because I had been off the forum for so long and I will tell you what I told him
I got a VERY mean PM last spring from a fairly new member who went off on me for...
1) hogging the "what did you do today regarding non-detailing" thread (as if that's possible)
2) showing off and bragging about my new house in the above mentioned thread
3) saying something negative about Mike Phillips
I was absolutely floored to be attacked like that by someone I don't know and had never even had harsh words with
I wasn't going to dignify the idiot with a response and I simply deleted the PM and chalked it up to experience
But
It came at a time when there was also a LOT of political rancor on the forum and both together just caused me to take a self imposed time out
I enjoy the forum 99% of the time and normally have a pretty thick skin but it was just too much
I really appreciated Opie reaching out to me and I appreciate you asking about the house
I am trying to ease back in to the forum but I am still a bit gun shy
Wow. Sorry I took so long to get back to this; I read on the forum all the time but do most of my replying during my lunch break so I can use a keyboard.
Did I say wow? Wow.
I'm glad respected others chimed in with great input and thoughts that match my own. I never took any of your house posts as boastful; if I was in your position I'd be sharing with the gang as well!
Glad to see you're back posting - come hang out with your friends and we'll all ignore the noise together. :dblthumb2:
I liked the posts on your new house, how often does someone get to do what you were doing. You're allowed to be excited about something like that. And it's not like you were posting about how perfect everything was going.
Being jealous can be embarrassing, why it was done in private I suppose.
Hard not to see it as a jealousy thing. I'm sorry, if you can't accept that other people are in different positions than you in life, that's on you (meaning the PM'ing member). We have customers at work I'm friends with that can and will go out and spend cubic yards of dollars on racing/car stuff in a way that I literally can't comprehend.
One time I was conversing with a coworker in the back area of the shop once because I was going back and forth on snow tire options for my daily driver (which sees probably 12k miles a year on snow tires), going back and forth if it was worth the $200-$300 more to go with the fancy ones again vs the budget snows I ended up going with (knowing my time with the car was wrapping up).
It then occurred to me, I was leaning on a stack of race wheels and tires worth probably $2500+, and those tires would only be used for a couple weekends. I realized what was happening, mentioned that to my coworker. Pointed to my name tag on my uni and said "Yup,
Peasant". :laughing: :laughing:
But here's the thing. I'm friends with the guy because he's the nicest guy, is never boastful about anything, and always looks forward to sharing whatever he can. He's also earned his place through hard work and sacrifices of his own.
I bring all this up not to be like "Woe is me!", but just that you've gotta accept folks are in different situations. Let the record show it's not like I'm out on the street selling diluted interior cleaner samples just trying to pay my bills; things are just fine, I just happen to be... thrifty. (I don't like cheap, it sounds so... cheap. :laughing: )