You do need to do it now!
I lost a detailing buddy last week. He and I and our wives hit shows, museums, road runs etc. Total shock how your life and lives of others around can change in an instant.
Really sorry for your loss John, that really sucks.
Since this thread has a theme of sorts I should pass this bad news along:
MadMerc passed away about a year ago. Him and I always met up at C&C's, exchanged txts, etc. I hadn't heard from him via txts, never really called him because we saw each other so often but through another person who knows him he told me the unfortunate news and it was the message that hit me..."we lost John about a year ago", may he Rest in Peace
Also this year, a fellow car guy I met through AG, his name was Ted, also passed away (can't remember his screen name, sorry) Ted was old enough to be my Dad and he lived his life to the max, raced his Mustangs all around the east/Daytona, had bad luck with them and bought a Cayman S and sent me glowing rotor pics from Daytona! Ted came to our Dragon Run 4 years in a row, each year with a different car. Ted was a retired attorney and told the best stories about EVERYTHING!
Right before he died I txt'd him about staying tough through this, he even went in AND out of hospice and I thought things took a turn for the better...but they didn't

My buddy in Tennessee sent me his obituary, he died the same day O.J. died.
John and Ted, you'll be greatly missed, I'm welling up as I post this, hard to write....
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