Father in Law Coming HOME!!

Don M

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The wife and I went to visit her dad in rehab yesterday and stayed to watch a physical therapy session. He did better than we imagined he would, making the exercises look like they were child's play. When he was done we went back to his room where we talked and all he wanted was to get out of there. He said that earlier yesterday he was told that the Drs. and Therapists had to have a pow-wow and decide and that they expected him to go home next week. I commented that I voted for Friday (tomorrow) he and my wife laughed and said my vote didn't count.


We talked a while longer and were getting ready to leave when the Supervising Nurse came in. We decided to wait to see what she had to say and she told us that they had their meeting and decided that they were going to discharge him on 6-5-15 ... THIS FRIDAY! The look of relief and joy on his face were plain, all he could say was "Bless you" and his eyes began to tear. The nurse left and all I could say was "D@mn, I'm good ... who said my vote didn't count?"


Up until now, he has been restricted to his bed and the longer he was there, the more lucid and aware he became, which meant the more board and agitated that he became. He was not allowed to get out of bed without assistance ... even though he could - easily. He basically couldn't make a move without a nurse or Aide being there. We figured that he had been in the hospital for almost a month and he is of the belief that a person heals faster at home, so the time must have really dragged for him.


Anyhow, he will be having a visiting nurse and a home therapist coming for a while, but with his attitude and drive, I don't see him needing them long.


Thanks all for the prayers and well wishes, they worked!
 
Outstanding news! As a homecare nurse I couldn't agree more that a person does their best healing in the comfort of their home. Rehabs/nursing homes are a cash cow, they normally try to keep people there as long as possible
 
That is fantastic news!!!! Glad to hear it!!!! :dblthumb2:
 
That is great. I'm currently rehabbing my back and it is a bear every moment of the day.
What happened to him? Was there a serious injury?
 
Awesome news! Hope the recovery keeps going well! :)
 
That is great. I'm currently rehabbing my back and it is a bear every moment of the day.
What happened to him? Was there a serious injury?

Quadruple heart bypass w/ cracked ribs from CPR
 
Hospitals suck and glad to hear your FIL will be going home soon.

Now is the difficult part... he has to take care of himself... meaning eat right and exercise once he is done healing. This is really easier said than done.
 
Now is the difficult part... he has to take care of himself... meaning eat right and exercise once he is done healing. This is really easier said than done.


He was an amateur body builder and owned a gym for several years, placed #2 in his class for powerlifting, so he knows all about diet & exercise, he'll be Ok.
 
He was an amateur body builder and owned a gym for several years, placed #2 in his class for powerlifting, so he knows all about diet & exercise, he'll be Ok.
I hope you don't find this the wrong way.... as I really don't mean to be negative but I am concerned. Despite his history, if he had to have quadruple bypass... it kind of tells me he has not been taking care of himself... or he has forgotten how.

My dad had a triple bypass and he didn't take care of himself well enough. He had also sort of health issues afterwards and at the end, he passed.

Bad habits are hard to break and will need a lot of support/help from loved ones.

I hope I am wrong in my assumption and I wish your FIL the absolute best and a fast recovery.
 
I hope you don't find this the wrong way.... as I really don't mean to be negative but I am concerned. Despite his history, if he had to have quadruple bypass... it kind of tells me he has not been taking care of himself... or he has forgotten how.

My dad had a triple bypass and he didn't take care of himself well enough. He had also sort of health issues afterwards and at the end, he passed.

Bad habits are hard to break and will need a lot of support/help from loved ones.

I hope I am wrong in my assumption and I wish your FIL the absolute best and a fast recovery.

He is/was a heavy smoker but has kicked the habit, he was also a bricklayer for over 40 years breathing in concrete dust. He is strong willed and when he sets his mind to something, it's pretty much a guaranty that he will succeed.
 
Awesome news Don, I'm glad the surgery went well and I'm hoping for a smooth recovery at home!
 
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