Dear friend, sorry to hear about what happened to you.
Short story,
This never happened to the vast majority of people who owns it, but this issue already happened with more than enough people to be considered towards a 'minor design flaw' than an user error issue. It happened to me ~an year or more ago / plate was replaced and no more problems at all.
Fact is, you can now glue your plates together (like I did mine) and have a dedicated 4" backing plate.
First, fix the exact part where the fail occurred. Then, use some epoxy and join both parts of the kit together the best you can. Lastly, insert and glue the washer and make like an 'internal reinforcement' with epoxy resin - You sure have to leave exact whole for the bolt to pass freely in order to lock it to the tool.
Glueing a lot of parts will help to lessen the stress over central spindle so you can also sand internal plastics making it rough for better adhesion.
If you need pictures, ask me on Monday I may upload them from studio to you.
When using, you place it at the tool as a single part, and insert the bolt tight. Mine now is 100% trustable.
The second one (factory replaced) started to fail but haven't failed at all.
Since my first one broke, I was now aware while using the second and observed it weekly, while I could notice the plastic was starting to look dry and presenting micro-ruptures at the exact same point which was an alert to what was about to happen plus the bottom.
Before it break again I decided to glue it like the first one, and it's going strong daily, with what can be called 'extreme' use. Both are.
To @Lake Country / @Flex , this is a chance to hear customers needs and do your best (we all know you do!) to improve those systems to endusers needs.
We need (not to say urge) a 'Factory Standard Dedicated 4" Backing Plate' like the 4 3/8" and why not 4 3/8' velcro Hybrid Pads. (!)
But you did something wrong to break it, no? So what? Cannot blame you for that.
That's my point.
Please, forgive any misunderstood on my language written (I'm brazilian), there can be a place for mistakes when writing / reading on a forum, read my words with a huge smile and only my best wishes put into words.
Kind Regards.