Welcome to the Forum. I'm guessing you should probably clarify what you mean by "show me the ropes"; are you trying to do detailing for money? Or are you simply trying to maintain your personal cars and would like to hang out and learn?
I'm a bit far away, but I'm sure there are members around your area. What questions do you have exactly? I'm sure you will find most of your answers floating around the forum.
I may have not looked in the right place, but to help you out a little...Richmond, ?? My first thought is Virginia bc I went to VCU, but there is a Richmond in just about every state.
As far as the "ropes", check out Mike Phillips' new detailing book. There is a ton of info in there that will help you out. I bought it in Dec and love it so far.