Happy Fat Tuesday!

ShaunD

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Happy Mardi Gras ya'll! Sucks not being in the South this time of year and having all the parades and fun. Was supposed to be in New Orleans this past weekend but family comes first. Found out around the Feb.21st that my mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. And after the surgery that following Saturday we all found out the tumor is non-operable until after chemo in a couple of months. God willing the chemo will allow the surgeons to remove the tumor and re-route "the plumbing" around the pancreas. It has been a tough beginning to a new year with unemployment, house that needs repairs so I can rent it and move to Philly and start 3 years of school. Not to include a truck that needs that tranny swapped and oil seals replaced, among other things. Now, constantly praying that my mom heals from the first surgery and chemo works so they can operate on her a second time to remove the tumor; I am praying for a miracle and so are many other people for my mom. Thank you AG/AGO for distracting me when I would normally be very depressed and overwhelmed to say the least.
Today was a great day though. It's Fat Tuesday, my mom's birthday and he is happy, the 100th Anniversary of International Women's Day, and God Blesses America(and all of us)! I walked the dog and I took a less traveled route to see if his doggie friend was available to play. Instead we met a guy named Chris who was "cleaning-up" his gf's neglected, white Xterra to take to Carmax, so I stopped with the pup to say hi and ended asking if he wanted a hand. I came back after dropping the dog and pick'n up detail stuff and talked more than detailed but did clay some spots and hand polished a spot, and spot cleaned the driver's door panel. Chatted him and the gf up and next thing I know Chris is handing me 20($)bucks; I said I couldn't take that much for what I did. But, he insisted so I said I would come back and give him his money's worth on his pearl white Dodge Ram and if Carmax didn't want to give a good deal on the Xterra I would hook up a full detail in hopes they get a better deal. He took my number and appeared very interested for me to detail the Ram. God blesses us when we least expect it. Plus! When I got home my neighbor had received my AG package from UPS for me. Right away I used my WG DGSS a few spots on the truck, one to include a spot I just hand polished with PBW's ProPolish. I have a new detailing love. WG DGSS has got to be the best QD available. It's a QD sealant which makes me feel even better about using it to clean off light dirt, dust, and smudges. I even snuck over to my neighbors Chrysler 300 and cleaned a spot that to make sure it was overspray of some sort. She now has a one clean,shiny spot on here drivers door that enhances the overspray spot.:D
Maybe now I can convince her she needs my services.hehe
And hopefully my neighbor's son lets me detail his 03 black Ram so he can try and sell it. God is good and is blessing me at a time when I really need it. Thanks for letting me rant/vent. Really though, just sitting here on reading and typing keeps me from thinking about how bad things may get with my mom in the coming months(not gonna cry in front of you guys). So whether you all know it or not, you have all helped me mentally deal with things in the past few weeks. And spending money on the AG store helped as well when I shouldn't have been spending money, but, God is blessing me to make money with those purchases. Thanks anyone who has listened to me/read this:rant:
 
Shaun'
I'm really sorry about your mom,I lost my Grandmother to this because she was to old and had heart isuses for treatment.It is tough watching close family members battle this kind of stuff,but it looks like things are looking up for you! I hope and Pray that your mom recovers fully! I also pray for your strength to help your mom! It's funny how these forums were created to help people,be better detailers or such and in the meantime I think they have created a very Large Family to which somebody can call on at anytime to get words of encouragement! My Thoughts and Prayers with You,Your Mom,and your Family!
Tim

Ps: If I can Help in anyway...well I'm here!
 
Words seem inadequate. So I will share this song that I hope will bring you encouragement - it is one of my favorite songs. And remember, this too shall pass.


[ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2ugTc4bJ-o]YouTube - Sometimes By Step, Bebo Norman & Rich Mullins[/video]
 
Thanks Tim and Shane. You words/song are encouraging. I pray that through all of this that it brings my family closer together and closer to God. It is awesome to have an AGO family. It crazy to think of what all we would miss if we weren't on this forum. Funny how we get more than we ask for when we need most. God speaks to us in mysterious ways.:)
 
Yo Shaun I hope your mom gets well man. Honestly made my eyes watery lol I love my mother with all my heart no matter what. She has always been there for me and your mom is in my prayers bro. Don't worry man everything must happen like they have to. Be strong and stay positive. Don't give up on your self and keep working hard toward your goals because life goes on.

Is ok men cry to lol theres no problem in crying in front of us :D
 
Sorry to hear about your mom. I lost mine to cancer when I was 15. It was tough.

Never give up hope, a positive attitude helps. Don't dwell on the bad. She in in the thoughts and prayers of many on this forum.

And it's ok to cry, man.
 
Thanks Exotic and Vet. I am keeping my head up, so don't be concerned. No time to hang my head and dwell; too much to take care of, and gotta be strong for the family. That is one thing that my mom has done is stayed positive(99% of the time), and really turned to her faith in God. It is a blessing how well her friends at the credit union she works with are looking out for her. And one of her co-workers/friends is married to an Episcopalian Priest, and he has been there for her before she knew it was cancer making her sick. I got to the hospital the day before mom's surgery and Father Frank was there just minutes away from setting up communion; and I didn't even know he was going to be there. So I got to have communion with my mom for the first time at a time when she needed it most. If I had gotten there earlier or later in the day I may have missed it; God is amazing like that! So regardless of what happens, I know God is taking care of my mom and has a plan beyond what we can see or hope for.
It's a long story, but my mom and I didn't see each other, or communicate much from the time I was 5 until about 19yrs. old. So being 30 now and thinking of all those years missed, I just want to make the best of the time we have left together. YOU GUYS SAID I COULD CRY!:cry:
Thanks for the positive attitudes out reaching spirits you guys are sharing. And most of all, thanks for the faith and prayers you are sharing and sending my family's way. AGO is the best online family I could ask for!:):dblthumb2::)
 
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