Full time job, part time detailer, strictly mobile, and booked for several weeks in advance. Primarily through word of mouth or people finding me through google.
I don't do any dealer work or approach random people. The randoms that I deal with all find me through the website.
Keep at it and continue to build your skills and repuation. it'll come. But speaking from experience, having a full time job does kinda inhibit your growth. There is only so much you can do in 2 days per week (while maintaining whatever else you have going on in your life and maybe taking a breath to rest).