this makes sense. sometimes I let my personality get too involved in my decision making. I'm the person that always yields the right of way, the guy that always holds the door, the person that goes to an all inclusive resort and ends up spending $200 that week in tips when nobody else in line gives a penny. I have been known to buy complete strangers a drink at the bar just because, I constantly donate to causes that mean nothing to me, and I have given the person running the drive thru window an extra $20 to pay for the next few orders on multiple occasions. I have never done these to things to get paid back, but I have always believed in Karma. I have always believed that someday I would get treated the same way. I haven't, and its getting old. and then, customers like this.
I had to chime in here.
First, OP, do NOT stop the practices you mention above. Just because YOU don't receive any bennies from your karmic efforts doesn't mean you aren't making a material impact on the lives of others. If everyone practiced even a little selfless kindness, all our lives would witness a geometric improvement over time (think compounding interest).
Others on here have counseled adjusting your pricing, and I agree. I'm not a detailer (just a car lover trying to learn how best to care for my own car), but I am in business, with an MBA.
I can't help but remember the business case of Busch beer. Once it was considered a "higher end" regular beer, with decent sales, until Anheiser Busch LOWERED the price hoping to increase sales, which subsequently plummeted (late 1980s).
Point being that which another made; set your pricing to attract those who would have the money to pay generously, they seek quality (and bragging rights on how much they spend) and include in those prices the level of tip you would otherwise expect for the quality/quantity of work you're offering; that way YOU will feel adequately compensated w/o depending on the fairness of others.
Let the quality if your work attract customers, not your prices.
Good luck, and please continue being a decent person.
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