i feel like I am wasteing time with my life

timaishu

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This has been bugging me for awhile and I don't know what to do. I graduated from high school in 2007, I started college the same year. I graduated with an A.S in Electronics and Computer Technology in 2010. After graduation, I had little to no luck in the job market. I have worked only about 1 year out of the 2.5 years since Ive graduated.

I decided to come back to school and persue a B.S in Electrical Engineering. I am in my 3rd semester and recently I began getting phone calls from staffing agencies asking if I am still in the job market. I have turned down two offers in one week. It is just killing me inside. I want to work so bad, but I also want to go to school. If I go full time in school, I would probably graduate when I am 27-28. I feel like I wasted all that time when I wasn't working. I could have been 2 years in already if I had started sooner.

My fear is that I will graduate with an EE at the age of 28, and still not be able to find a job. I will then be in more debt and I will be starting a career at a late age.

Ugh :(
 
Jacob,

I was in a similar situation as you 2 years ago.
At the end I took the job offer and changed to part time study.
I am also studying EE now!
The reason that I did not drop my study is because I love the learning process in university.
In fact I think I prefer to do go for further studies / research rather than working as engineer.

Dennis.
 
We need more engineers. If you are doing it because you love it, because you have a sincere interest in it, finish school. If you're going for the BSEE simply because you think you can get a good job with that degree, maybe you should drop out; as much as we need engineers, you won't be a good one if you don't have a passion for it.

Sometimes that time spent when you're 18-23 isn't wasted if it's spent figuring out what you really want out of life or a career...how many people get a 4-year degree right out of high school, and then never wind up working in their field of study?
 
Thats true. I know many guys I graduated highschool with who have BA's who are working retail. I dunno, I just want to be independant. But I want a good education. I dont want to be like my brother who is going back to school at the age of 35.

EE has always interested me. Im not doing it just because of the money. But working in the fields of power or RF or whatever sounds really fun to me.
 
Jacob,

I was in a similar situation as you 2 years ago.
At the end I took the job offer and changed to part time study.
I am also studying EE now!
The reason that I did not drop my study is because I love the learning process in university.
In fact I think I prefer to do go for further studies / research rather than working as engineer.

Dennis.

How is part time school working for you?
 
EE has always interested me. Im not doing it just because of the money. But working in the fields of power or RF or whatever sounds really fun to me.

Go for it, man. In the go-go 80's you would have had an aerospace job in a second once you graduated, but I think SD is pretty dead now. Try and get some summer internships later, it will help get you started.
 
Jacob, I was 27 when I got my EE degree. Stay the course. I would recommend you major in Power. We are an aged work force.
 
Stay on the path. Success will come.


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Thank you for the encouragement you guys. I am going to try and find part time work or internships.

I honestly just want to get experience under my belt. I live at home right now, so money isn't a live or die situation.
 
As someone who will finally graduate this year (at, ahem age 42), I advise to stay the course. I made the mistake (in hindsight) to leave college and work in the airline industry. After leaving ther airlines in the early 2000's , I focused on Law enforcement and have fortunately secured a great job in the private sector. The advantage of this job is that the company encourages further education. The Bachelors degree is really a personal milestone for me more than for career advancement.
 
As someone who makes a living doing RF power design...hang in there!!! I go to work and play every day and make a good living doing it. Something that you could possibly look into is what I did when I was in school...get involved in a CO-OP program. Lots of companies have a system already in place and it will let you get your feet wet, and provide some money, while making sure that you're going to end up doing what you'll be happy with when you finish your degree. I've been at it for almost 20 years now and we can't find good RF power engineers anywhere.

Hang in there.....the key is finding a job that's fun and interesting to you then you'll never really work a day in your life.
 
Stay in school and finish your EE degree. I went to tech school for auto repair out of HS. Worked as a flat rate mechanic for 7 years at a Ford dealership. Got 6 ASE certs, SI & EI lic's, and a bunch of Ford certs by the time I was 20.

I was pretty much done at that point. I was like "is this all there is"? I wanted to get out of auto repair for many reasons, mainly because of all the warranty fraud I saw going on and how it was rewarded.

At that time I was 24, and the last thing I felt like doing was going back to school. I really hated HS. Anyway, I did it, and 7 years later I have Doctor of Pharmacy degree and am a certified immunizer.

The point is, I didn't "graduate" until I was 31. Going back to school (and finishing) really paid off. I'm making 4 times as I was fixing cars and have 7 out of every 14 days off.

More education can only help you. Sometimes I see people pass on or stop school for a "job", like that "job" is going to be there forever. Finish school and you will have 2 degrees and be more desirable to employers. If you take a job now, it may be a compromise and you may feel like your stuck there and regret not finishing school.

Jobs are a dime a dozen. Employers only want you for what you can do for them. The job you take today will likely not enhance your future as much as finishing school.
 
How is part time school working for you?


I get up at 6:30am, arrive at work at 8:20
Work till 16:45 then leave for University.
Have class til 22:30 on Mon, Tue, Fri.
Self study over the weekend.

Been doing this for 2 yrs..
It is very tiring but i really enjoy studying
 
i could type out a multi-page post here, but going to try to keep it short.

Finding an internship with a reputable corp. is needed when it comes to specialized fields, like EE. The more time you have the internship, the more likely you are to have a job offer waiting after graduation. This very well could be a competitor to the company you had an internship with, while working toward your degree.

I've had room mates call or visit that are in situations that were unfathomable while in attendance. They studied, held a 3.x+ gpa and left the university without any type of criminal infractment mark on their record. They did everything "right", but opted to work little or work in a non-related field from their studies while in attendance.

When searching for an internship, search for one with pay! I know of only a tiny fraction of unpaid internships that panned out to be a good idea. The pay isnt likely anything to get excited about, or allow you to survive without student loans, BUT in the long run, it's well worth the experience and addition to a resume!

I was fortunate in my adventures to catch an internship at the end of my freshmen year. Was interesting! When I started, the employer didn't have a place for me to sit, so they quite literally put me in the closet. It was similar to Milton's in Office Space. I would enter the front of the building, walk through a large section of cubicles, through an installation room, then through an indoor/outdoor alley for a forklift to load/unload pallets, and finally into a closet filled with boxes, 2 server racks and 1/4 make-shift cubicle. When I started, it was November and quite cold outside, yet the heat from the servers kept the closet at a warm 83 deg. I found a box fan and propped the door open to the alleyway to pump in cold air from the outside. This seating arrangement lasted almost 3 months!!!

I started working on mission-critical projects in the spring, and at the end of the spring semester I was switched from the intern position to a permanent part-time; doing the same work. This entire time, I was working toward a AS in computer programming and could see a career ceiling. I began searching for options to gain a BS from several universities, doing a cost comparison between each. I visited 5 campuses in three states, and chose an out-of-state campus for several reasons.
  1. their out of state tuition was lower than the in state university I planned to attend.
  2. I was offered a scolarship which provided in-state tuition at an even lower cost
  3. I was provided free housing up to X dollars if I lived on campus

Upon telling my employer my plans, it was encouraging to hear them support my decision to complete a BS. I was shocked when they offered me the option to continue working for them while living in another state! I was provided a laptop and continued to work for them from my dorm with a maximum of 20 hours per week, unless prior approval was granted. In some instances, I was required to return for special projects or meetings, and each "break" I would return to the office.

The entire time I worked for them, I never received a raise. After graduation, I let them know my intentions to stay in the state I completed my BS from. I returned to their offices for a goodbye, thank you and farewell after working for them over the last few years. The first year after graduation was the toughest. I bounced between contract jobs that were well below my expected pay and experience. It was 14 months later, I applied for the position I wanted. The referrals and past experience, along with the degree, was key to getting the position.

Looking back, I had a few lucky breaks to get where I am today. There were struggles, and I passed a few opportunities that could have held a better short term future. I'm glad I held back from jumping on those and ate too many boxes of mac & cheese / ramen noodles.

bust your butt and get a paid internship with a major business!
chris<pixelmonkey>:D
 
If you saw my paycheck you would stick with your EE degree. I got one from VaTech in 1996 and its served me well.

Dont stop learning when you get your degree, you need to develop a career that will make you extremely valuable.
 
Finding an internship with a reputable corp. is needed when it comes to specialized fields, like EE. The more time you have the internship, the more likely you are to have a job offer waiting after graduation. This very well could be a competitor to the company you had an internship with, while working toward your degree.

I Co-Op'd when I was in school - definitely worth it for the experience, and the money was good as well.
 
Timaishu
I was 27 by the time I finished undergraduate and graduate school ( I majored in partying and all-night poker games my first trip to college).

I have never regretted it as I am doing something that I truely enjoy. I think that in the long run, you will be happy that you pursued your degree. Good luck!
 
After almost 14 years in the military, I went back to school (love the 'old' GI Bill), worked full time was (still am) married, owned a home...in other words, my plate was full.

I was lucky in the sense that I worked second shift and had the days available for school. Was it hard? In a heart beat! By the end of every week, I was one beat puppy. In the end I did finish.

Even if you may to be able to only take a limited number of credits per quarter/semester...just keep at it.

Just to blow my own horn, at 69 years 'young' I'm STILL in school. One is NEVER to old to learn.

Just my thoughts...

Bill
 
Even if you may to be able to only take a limited number of credits per quarter/semester...just keep at it.

Just to blow my own horn, at 69 years 'young' I'm STILL in school. One is NEVER to old to learn.

Just my thoughts...

Bill

Jacob,
There's some sage advice for ya' my friend.

Bill,
What an inspiration you are!!!. I want to thank you for posting your age...even if it's to showcase just what you stated. "One is NEVER to old to learn."
 
I agree with others here. I would try and co-op. it's the best thing for engineering students. I am a tax guy but my wife is an engineer and I hope my kids follow her path. Everyone I know with an engineering degree has a great job. Stick it out and a couple years from now all this will just be a blip on the radar.
 
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