Personally I think it is great when parents include their little ones in their life as you obviously are . Your little girl is dressed very nice and looks very happy , what more can someone ask for ?? If you and your wife chose to have her ears pierced that is your business and I saw no evidence of harm done to your baby . The beautiful smile in the third shows a very happy child that is being well taken care of . As far as letting her smell the wax so be it , your hands were very close just in case she got the wax too close to her face . I congratulate you on your involving your little girl in your car hobby . Maybe if more parents would include their children in something positive we would not have some of the problems with kids that we do today .
For those offended by what you did , get a life !
If I offended anyone on this site ,please accept my apologies . Just had to say what I did .