I'm looking for a good sealant and/or wax for my daily driver. A little background:
Its a metallic red '05 corolla I'd like something low maintenance / good longevity since generally speaking I'm busy/lazy

. It doesn't need to look stunning (I'ts a corolla its not like it will be turning heads anyway

). I don't mind investing time up front in prep/layering for gains in longevity.
So what would you recommend? Also what should I top it with on those occasions that I do have the time and I want it to look good?
Hello Devin122, and welcome to our forum!
A 100 members could possibly come up with a 100 different suggestions, and answers to your questions.
And many would not in any way be wrong suggestions.
There's so many great products sold here. Both Waxes, Sealants, and the ultra tough, and expensive long lasting coatings that are available.
Two very good products that are reasonable in cost, and offer very good performance, I might suggest those from the Duragloss Line, and also Collinite Products.
As you mentioned, prep will benefit any vehicle, in getting both better appearance, and as well better protection, as any, and all products will bond better.
There's a virtual encyclopedia worth of archived information here, from gurus like Mike Phillips, in which he covers every aspect of vehicle care, use of tools, techniques, and virtually every product known to man.
To follow his guidlines, and to gather knowledge through his experience will be wise, and time well spent.
You mention not so much seeking a desire of stunning results, but with many of the great products availabe here (and as well over the counter at stores), proper techniques, stunning results will be one characteristic that will be attained besides good long pasting protection.
Hoping you enjoy your stay, and membership! Mark