Good work/shot!
Steering wheels and shift levers get that bad too.
I think most people don't realize it's build up, from them! One friend's I did thought the paint had worn off the wiper switch, when it was just filthy.
So I had a steering wheel on a car that kept getting black, brown and smudgy. I actually got a little self conscious about it thinking maybe I wasn't washing my hands enough or something. Scrubbing and scrubbing and it wasn't coming out. A little research revealed; a common occurence on that car as it got older was the oils in the plastic would actually start to surface as the plastic would break down. And, sure enough, within a couple of months the steering wheel was basically coming apart in little bitty chunks and like a fine powder; leaving my hands grimy. Stuck a steering wheel cover over it and eventually sold it. Now I've got a Focus with a factory leather-wrapped steering wheel.
I think people genuinely don't look at keeping their car clean as a priority. It's a tool, a utility. A contractor doesn't wash his hammer, why should I wash my car? My in-laws are mostly very clean people, their houses are always clean, they are always clean and well dressed, their kids are always clean (unless they come to my house. I send them home good and dirty and wound up.) But their cars are always awful! They don't wash them; as in almost ever. Maybe an automatic car wash a couple times a year. Since most of them park outside (they use their garages for other things. Seriously. Not one of my wifes several siblings has their cars in their garage. Is it like a 'thing' with them? I dunno.), the paint is flaking and peeling on their cars after just a few years. I know one has a 2009 van that already has some serious clearcoat failure. It's not a reflection on them, they aren't "Dirty people" (I sometimes hear comments like 'I wonder what their houses look like', well I can tell you in this case, usually spotless!) But it's nothing for those cars to be covered in spills and spots from the kids, grime built up everywhere, dust and dirt, and just be filthy.
All of the nieces and nephews know my two rules about riding in my car. Buckle up (no exceptions), and no food or drink that isn't water (no exceptions). Even I don't eat in my car (Bottled water is it).