Even though my car is an automatic, I would take a manual transmission car over an auto any day. You have complete control over the car, and you're less tempted to be distracted behind the wheel (texting, eating etc.) because it requires more focus to drive. There is nothing that makes driving more fun than being able to rev-match your downshifts, heel-toe shift, etc. You have more control that way.
The fake "manual shifting" automatics are nothing more than just a marketing scheme. I've driven many cars with this feature, and it's completely pointless. The shifts feel very delayed, and sometimes the computer still kicks in and shifts before you want it too.
Dual clutch transmissions may be faster shifting than manual transmissions, but they don't have that connection to the road that you get from driving stick. IMO, the joy of driving manual is more important than the 1/10 second faster shift time.