When dogs get old...

tuscarora dave

tuscarora dave

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It can be so hard to watch it happen. There is a ton of new members here at AG, so many that an older member might wonder if any other long term members are still here posting or reading the forum. Regardless of any of that, I'd imagine that most of the members here have dogs or other household pets. I'm sure that anyone around here for any length of time knows who "Jack" is when I speak of her. For those of you who don't, "Jack" is my girl dog with a boy's name. She was named "Jack" at birth, 5 months before she graced my life and took the 130 mile car ride to her new home with me. She pooped and threw up all over the leather seats in the Buick LeSabre T-Type that I had those 15 years ago. Since then Jack and I have logged probably more than 100,000 miles together with not one more episode of unintentional bodily functions. She's been my sidekick for the last 15 years and it's nearing the time that I'll have to have her put down. Man this is hard.

From time to time "Jack" shows a little favor to her one front leg and limps on 3. The vet says it's a little arthritis and to give her an aspirin wrapped in a piece of lunch heat and she'll be fine. This morning she is having a bit of a time with her hind legs. She's always jumping up and down from my recliner as if she was a two year old dog, so I hope she just over did it with the jumping around over the last few days.

I know in my heart that it's getting really close to time where she's going to be living with a lot of pain and at that point I'll do what has to be done. Man I'm an emotional mess over here. I'm not looking for any answers as I know what to do and the vet always says "Dave, you'll know when it's time." Just wanted to share it here with some of the folks I've gotten to know a bit over the years. Thanks for listening/reading.


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I sorry to hear of JAck's waning health. I had to put my dog down 6 mos ago. I still think of him - a great companion
 
Old dogs have character and lots of it.


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Dave,
I feel your pain. I have a 12 year old German Sheppard and have gone thru this 3 times before. It is tough and makes a mess of your emotions. Hang in there.

Dave
 
Sorry to hear that Dave, those days when "it's time" are really, really tough ones.
 
Pets are a blessing. Sorry to hear Jack showing her age but I'm sure she has the best of care! Enjoy all the special moments and memories she gives you! Hang in there!
 
Dave...So sorry to hear of your companion's: 'diminishing capacities'. :(

(Troubling thought: Happens so often to elderly 'human-folks' as well).

Reinhold Niebuhr's: "Serenity Prayer" is sometimes a God-send during emotional times.

"God, give us grace to accept with serenity
the things that cannot be changed...

Amen.

:)

Bob
 
Hi Dave,

Sorry to hear your pal is getting on in life...

Being a pet lover and owner it's an eventually and we face it together. The death of a pet, a true and loyal companion is never easy and with everyone you one loose, a piece of your heart is buried with them...at least that's the way I see it..

Believe me, I feel your pain.....
 
Dave, i'm sorry for what you are going through. I had to do that a few years back with my 10 year old rottie. He had hip displacement which he had problems walking or jumping on the couch next to me to lay down and put his head on my leg and nap. I myself called him my son because I didn't call him a dog because he to me was a family member. My vet told me I can give him the medicine to subside most of his pain but not all of it. I almost did that but I did not want him to live out with that discomfort so I had to put him down to help him and hurt me tremendously. I was a wreck for a week or so but I feel good doing what I did.

God Bless Jack
 
Dave I really feel for you. I had to put my 14 year old Golden down about three years ago and I still tear up when I think about those days I had to ponder the questions you are now facing. Her last days were tough, yet she was loyal and loving
to her last breath. The decision to end her life was the most
difficult I ever faced. You will know when its time, but that doesn't make it any easier. The relationship between a man and
his dog is most definitly one of the great wonders of the world.
 
I feel your pain Dave. I have a cocker spaniel who is 13.5 and will be 14 in December. My last Cocker lived to be 16 with no health issues. As a pet owner I know exactly what you are going through.
 
Dave...I'm not a pet person by any means, but I get it. I understand the love/connection between a person and their pet. I'm so sorry that this is happening. People say its part of life...doesn't make it hurt less. I hope you and Jack have even more happy memories together. Anytime you need to vent...just post and we'll be here for you buddy.
 
Hi Dave,

I love animals for the simple reason that they just love you unconditionally and stand by you no matter what. When I moved from Greece to Canada I had to leave behind our cat. It was probably one of the hardest things we ever had to do as a family.

Now we re looking into adding a beagle in our family but it is these kind of moments that you go through that I think and make it hard to decide.

I feel your pain... My only friendly advice is to try to focus on all these amazing moments and memories you have had with Jack all these years.....these you can definitely treasure forever....

Theo
 
Sorry to hear that dave Nothing compares to the love of a dog. Loyal till the end. This is my dog right now his scared of the fireworks.

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david11g35 said:
Sorry to hear that dave Nothing compares to the love of a dog. Loyal till the end. This is my dog right now his scared of the fireworks.

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Aaw..God bless him... Hiding under the table.. Jack is scared of fireworks too, and thunder and lightning. At the vet's request I gave Jack her aspirin this morning and when I got back home this evening she was walking much better. She's over done it a few times in the past with her jumping up for treats and to draw my attention to something that she wants. I hope that this is just one of those "oops I've overdone it moments". I'll be keeping a close eye on her over the next few days.

Thank you all for your kind words and support:dblthumb2:. This is truly an unusual forum in that regard. Seriously...thank you all.
 
Dave,

All I can add is, I'm so very sad to hear this.

Having 'been there', I know what you are going through. The tears and the loneliness will end, but never will your memory of a TRUE and TRUSTED friend (or in your case, as mine...your daughter or son).

Bill
 
Sorry to hear this, Dave. But you are a strong person, and will make the right decision when it's 'time', hopefully the aspirin did the trick, and the time won't come for quite a while.
 
Thanks Guys!! Jack is still a bit lethargic this morning and walking lightly on her hind legs. I've been carrying her up and down the front steps to her favorite "Pee Spot". If she doesn't show any improvement in the next week I'll be making that appointment. As sad as it is, It kills me to see her unable to be happy, joyous and running free.:cry:
 
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