A good friend once told me, "Dave, there's a heck of a lot more hundred dollar bills out there than there are $500 bills."
I started out as many of us here on these forums do, show car paint corrections on family and friend's cars. I had a little hand made sign that I put out in the grass each time I worked on a car. It said "Auto Detailing" with my phone number under it. I got calls and eventually learned the ins and outs of paint correction. I also got through the most mistakes back in those days, such as paint burns, rubbing the color off of interior pieces, getting streaks on leather because of doing things the wrong way etc. Good thing I wasn't passing out cards yet.
After getting a good bit of experience, I then started handing out cards and soliciting business ideas from other business owners. This led to the relationship that I have with the guy who told me about the $100 bills vs. the $500 bills. That led me to starting this thread
http://www.autogeekonline.net/forum/auto-detailing-101/27192-serving-masses.html
I was torn and all worked up about quality issues involving the use of fillers etc. This all led me to this article by Mike Phillips
http://www.autogeekonline.net/forum.../23142-difference-between-swirl-squirrel.html
My friend was right and it made a lot of sense after reading Mike's article. I then went on a quest to find a glaze type of compound/polish that would actually remove some defects at the same time as leaving behind a filler so I could do a nice job quickly and not leave wool marks behind that would show up down the road after a half a dozen washes. This would be the product I used on the $100 details. After trying a few products that folks were recommending, I stumbled upon Mother's Machine Glaze from their Professional line and this product does what I needed it to do better than anything I have found to this day.
I offer a cheap detail that includes a quick but effective wash using a carwash industry cleaner and pressure washer, no clay, the car gets the exterior buffed using the Flex 3401 and Mother's Machine Glaze, a coat of UPGP, interior vacuumed with minor carpet spot removal, mat shampooing, wipe down dash, console and door panels, glass inside and out and tires dressed. This is my $100 quick detail and it takes a few hours to do a car. (Trucks, SUVs and Mini Vans are more)
I talk to all of my customers about detailer's clay and fillers etc. being up front and honest with them about what I feel is the right way to go about a detail versus what the masses want in a detail and then I give them a choice as to how they would want me to proceed with their car or truck.
I always ask them how they currently care for the vehicle and then ask them if they would be willing to take more time for caring for their own vehicle with better washing technique. Some are ready to drop $500 or more on an all out paint correction when I ask them this question. When they show no interest in changing their ways, I recommend the quicker detail with a few add-on services or upcharges such as carpet shampooing and interior protection products like Scotch Guard etc.
Most of my customers like the fact that I cater to their needs and that I would sacrifice earned money to make sure they got the package that would best fit their lifestyle. In all reality I am not sacrificing anything at all. In fact I am not only getting them back as repeat customers, but I am getting calls from their friends, family, neighbors and co-workers.
Some of my customers opt for the higher end work and then come to me more frequently for maintenance services.
It has taken me years to develop the skills both with detailing and with customer relations to handle things as I currently do.
So I'd say that word of mouth is a result of not only doing good work on the car, but also doing good work with the customer and being as diverse as possible as a detailer, offering good honest options that are dictated by the needs of each customer.
Just some of my thoughts and experience on the matter. TD