Anyone else unmarried? Am I weird?

CieraSL said:
I'm 23, almost 24 (will be 24 on July 31st), and have never even dated or gone out with somebody, much less been married. No hurries here.
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I'm the same age and my birthday is July 30th :xyxthumbs:

As for the OP, their nothing wrong with that man. Its what you want to do with your life and as long as your happy then keep on doing what you want.

I'm in a 3 year relationship right now. Not married and no kids and dont plan on it for a while
 
Unmarried 39 yo no kids in limbo recently out (sort of out) of a long term relationship. I lived with her for a few years and one day she moved out. The weird thing is I still see her all the time and we go out on weekends. Not sure where it's going, if it's going anywhere. I'll tell you since she moved out, it's a lot more peaceful here and I don't have to hear someone complain about a job they hate all the time but won't quit. I'm really liking living alone and not having to put up with someone else's BS.
 
I was married at the young age of 20 when I was in the military and divorced at 30 (she cheated on me) no kids thank God! After I played the field and met someone on myspace (don't judge) we have been together for 6 years and I recently got re-married.

I have never been happier with my wife and can't compare her to the others including my ex-wife. Our relationship works, she gets my car hobby and fully supports my detailing on the side without getting permission or approval.

To each his own and if you are happy with playing the field then so be it, not every man or woman is marriage material. You need to put yourself first and don't let anyone dictate what feelings you have and decisions that need to be made. Some people are happy being alone or having that occasional strange whatever floats your boat. /end sermon :)
 
BrightonRT said:
Your not weird, it's a personal decision, I wasn't expecting the one that came my way, but then I met a girl that loved snowmobiling, boating, cars, and college football more than any girl I had ever met, and when she tells you to buy the 2-door muscle car over the sensible sedan... well we'll just say you don't let those ones go.

Been together 9 years, married for 5 this October, with the first child arriving sometime in the next 6 weeks or so... and couldn't be happier.:xyxthumbs:
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Been together 6 years, married for 3, our girl is due in 7 weeks!Im the MAN
 
Well, I'm 39 and used to be married. Got married at 23, 4 years later we each took our bills (no kids thank goodness) and went our separate ways. Sucked at the time, but you couldn't ask for a cleaner divorce that's for sure. Been single since until a couple years ago I used that Chemistry.com site and yeah I've been dating the same lady for 3 years now with no signs of anything going south. This one is looking like a keeper and has changed my mind about never getting married again. The only kids we plan to have are either the furry or feathered kind that meow, bark, or squawk and the 1st & 3rd in that list are already covered lol. The barker is coming "soon".
 
flyinion said:
Well, I'm 39 and used to be married. Got married at 23, 4 years later we each took our bills (no kids thank goodness) and went our separate ways. Sucked at the time, but you couldn't ask for a cleaner divorce that's for sure. Been single since until a couple years ago I used that Chemistry.com site and yeah I've been dating the same lady for 3 years now with no signs of anything going south. This one is looking like a keeper and has changed my mind about never getting married again. The only kids we plan to have are either the furry or feathered kind that meow, bark, or squawk and the 1st & 3rd in that list are already covered lol. The barker is coming "soon".
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Oh, those kind of kids I have. 1 black I adopted because an elderly women's Jamaican housekeeper thought black cats were the devil and kept trying to murder it with poison. So, the old lady died and I adopted him. My other cat is a purebred Ragdoll I got from a breeder:

I guess they are my kids.
 
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31, and recently switched camps from 'not wanting' to 'definitely'. I had dated a bit over the years, but this one girl came around and changed my mind. It just started feeling like the most rational and logical choice.

I am still undecided on kids, though. I'm afraid that they'll break if I touch them. At least you can buff a scratch out of a car.

Oh, and the girl who changed my mind about marriage? The first time we talked it was about detailing.
 
flyinion said:
Well, I'm 39 and used to be married. Got married at 23, 4 years later we each took our bills (no kids thank goodness) and went our separate ways. Sucked at the time, but you couldn't ask for a cleaner divorce that's for sure. Been single since until a couple years ago I used that Chemistry.com site and yeah I've been dating the same lady for 3 years now with no signs of anything going south. This one is looking like a keeper and has changed my mind about never getting married again. The only kids we plan to have are either the furry or feathered kind that meow, bark, or squawk and the 1st & 3rd in that list are already covered lol. The barker is coming "soon".
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We have the fur kids too. 2 adopted Greyhounds and 3 cats. A human kind might be forthcoming before we get too old. ;)
 
To answer your question......you may very well be weird Im the MAN but I don't see what that would have to do with remaining single.
 
Before I answer the question let me say this, I'm on @6 car forums regularly and the people on AG are some of the most insightful and honest you'll ever meet in cyber space. Hats off to each and every one of you.

I'm 54, I was married for 21 years with 2 kids, should have got divorced after 10 but hung on because I was taught in my Catholic upbringing no way. I was miserable so was she, she strayed multiple times till she met someone who would marry her. Moral of that story do what makes you deep down inside happy. And yes over half of "our" stuff and money including my self employment IRA went with her and her new husband who does not work. I did get two wonderful kids who are now adults and whom I have a wonderful, to me, relationship with. Sho on the other hand has him and nothing else as they pissed away a fortune.
I've been with the same lady now 7+ years, we do not live together but spend almost ever waking moment away form work together. She is wonderful, understanding etc.. To those who want this it will happen if you open your mind and heart to the world. Might I get married again, I would to her if she wanted it but we're fine this way. We've got 5 furry kids togehter between us and she is very close to my kids. Life is great, we enjoy so many things together and separately never any issues. There's place for everything in this world.
 
don't feel wierd about not being married, i'm also single as well. all it takes is that one women to sweep you off your feet and that can happen at any given time. when the time comes it'll happen, until then just enjoy life...
 
Being a bit like Bobble above, married 30 years, 3 kids 18-22. I left 3 years ago. happy yes, see my kids everyday, no. But were all happy. what I have found a bit odd, dating at age 58. women like a guy with a full head of hair, any color as long as they have hair. I got all mine so I'm doing well! Two; older women tend to say with one guy and not wonder off, at their age they cant afford to "let one get away" . Fun? yes having a good time.
 
37 and unmarried, 1 kid. her favorite comment to make is that she'll be married before me.
 
Just remember......... marriage is the leading cause of divorce!
 
My only comment is I couldn't live off 1 income and maintain my lifestyle (house, vehicles, detailing addiction)

Everyone is entitled to their own personal life I wouldn't say you are wierd


Ryan
 
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